I still remember vividly my first break-up. If you asked me describe how I was feeling at that point of time, I would say, I feel like a loser. Well…is getting dumped a good or a bad thing? Everyone has their own opinions about it. However, I reckon that getting dump is something good BECAUSE at least you flaws are found out by other person and you would at least know and realize that you have it. Maybe you can put some effort in changing and improving yourself? I see some cases whereby they became worst and did not accept the fact that they have weaknesses. Sadly, they can only found that out when they learn how to accept the truth. Well…you know…The Truth Hurts.
Anyway, I was devastated at that time. Basking myself in agony and misery was my way of living and I drink like there’s no tomorrow. Serious at it is, at least I am all fine now.
Last month, I watched the movie – Sex and The City with my darling Dawn. One of the tough break-ups happened to the lead actress, Sarah Jessica Parker. Can you ever imagine on the day that you were getting married, this shit actually happened? For all the years that you have spent with your beloved other half simply vanished.
She went out for a holiday and supposing, it should be a romantic gateway for the newly wed. However, it all turned out to be a holiday for the four beautiful ladies. After the holiday, everyone was back to their own jobs and doing what they are suppose to. Ya I know, one of them had a fight with her husband because he had sex with other woman, another feels that she is trying to love his male model boyfriend more by showing more concerns, another is bless with a China husband, and the other is trying to get out of shadow of losing his beloved. Here I want to emphasize.
They all moved on.
It’s a bit irritating when you heard people consoling the other to move on and I really think that it’s NOT easy. No matter what experiences you had in the past relationships, the person who got dumped will not be listening to you. They are shittly sad and utterly disappointed by themselves.
You can help them by drinking with them, spending time with them, talking to them, making them feel important.
For those who just suffered just a break-up, just blame it on the cupid. =D
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